Hey, girls! I don’t know about you, but I’ve spent way too long wrestling with this sparkly, sissy side of myself—hiding it, fighting it, then craving it when it’s out of reach. This year, I’m done with the back-and-forth. I’m diving into this journey as much as I realistically can, and I’m so excited to see where it takes me.
I’ve put together a list of 20 promises to myself—stuff I think I can actually stick to. I’m sharing them here partly to inspire any of you who might want to set your own goals, and partly because I could use the accountability (you know how it is!). If you’re into it, I’ll post updates as I go—just let me know! Here’s my plan to make this year the girliest, truest one yet. Let’s get into it!
1. Be More Active Online in Sissy Spaces
I’m kicking things off by promising to show up more in sissy communities online. I’ll post pics, drop comments, and chat with you fabulous girls regularly. It’s all about spreading love and making friends who get it—plus, keeping my femininity front and center every day. Maybe I’ll even catch some cute guys’ attention while I’m at it. Think outfit shares, makeup wins, or just silly vibes—whatever keeps me connected.
2. Talk to More Men Online
This one’s a spicy promise tied to my kinks (totally optional for you!). I’ll seek out men online, flirt, and practice getting them off. I’m talking weekly goals here—at least one guy cumming because of me, with notes on what worked (teasing pics? Naughty words?). I’ll visualize doing it IRL, getting cozy with my attraction to them and leveling up my skills.
3. Take Care of Myself—Body and Soul
I’m done neglecting my body when I’m in boy mode. This year, it’s getting love because it’s my femme body too! I’ll eat girly foods—smoothies, salads, avocado toast—to feel light and bubbly. Workouts will be cardio and lower-body lifts for that slim-thicc shape I dream of. Plus, daily pampering: moisturizing, exfoliating, painting my toes. Time to treat myself right.
4. Shave Once a Week
Smooth skin is my vibe, so I’m committing to shaving all over—legs, arms, everything—once a week. It’s a little ritual to stay photo-ready, meetup-ready, or just to feel that inner-girl glow in the mirror. No pressure to be perfect, just consistent.
5. Take Lots of Cute Selfies
Selfies are my confidence fuel, so I’ll snap and post them regularly—aiming for once a week, but at least once a month. Alone time’s tricky, so I’m keeping it chill. Could be a full outfit shot or a flirty face pic—I want to get comfy showing off online and in DMs.
6. Make My Living Space More Feminine
My place is getting a girly overhaul! I’ll keep it clean, grab fresh flowers weekly, and add cute touches—pastel pillows, scented candles, a fluffy throw. It’ll smell sweet and look like a girl lives there, which, duh, she does!
7. Rework Masturbation Rules
Masturbation’s my sticky spot (lol), so I’m setting two rules to start: 1) No cumming unless I’ve made a guy online cum first, and 2) No cumming without something in my ass. Once I’m rolling with these, I might spice it up—like only cumming in panties or to sissy hypno.
8. Buy One New Femme Item Monthly
Every month, I’ll treat myself to something girly—a skirt, wig, lipstick, whatever catches my eye. Doesn’t have to break the bank; it’s about building my collection piece by piece and keeping the excitement alive.
9. Learn a Signature Girly Walk
I’m working on a walk that screams “girl”—heels or not. I’ll practice swaying my hips, keeping steps light, maybe peek at drag queen or model tutorials. It’s a subtle tweak I can use anywhere to feel her.
10. Experiment with Makeup Weekly
Makeup’s my playground, so I’ll mess around with it weekly—new looks like bold lips or smoky eyes. Even if it’s just at home, I’ll test primers, liners, whatever, and figure out what makes me feel prettiest.
11. Watch Girly Shows or Movies Monthly
Once a month, I’ll curl up with something ultra-femme—Clueless, Legally Blonde, a rom-com, you name it. It’s downtime that doubles as inspo, soaking up how girls talk, dress, and shine.
12. Voice Training Practice
I want her voice to match the vibe, so I’ll spend 10 minutes a day (or a few times a week) softening and lifting my pitch. Apps like Voice Pitch Analyzer or YouTube vids will be my guides.
13. Wear Panties Daily
Every single day, I’ll slip into panties—under jeans, work clothes, whatever. That silky secret keeps me tied to her, no matter what’s on top.
14. Journal My Sissy Thoughts
I’ll grab a cute notebook (pink, obviously!) and jot down my sissy feels weekly—wins, fantasies, whatever’s swirling in my head. It’s my little space to process this journey.
15. Try a Sissy Name IRL
I’ve got a femme name I adore, so I’ll test it out somewhere safe—ordering coffee, chatting online—and see how it feels to hear it spoken.
16. Stretch for Flexibility
I’ll stretch 5-10 minutes daily—yoga or simple moves like splits and hip openers. It’s about feeling limber, graceful, and ready to move like a girl.
17. Scent Myself Girly
Every day, I’ll spritz a floral perfume or slather on sweet lotion. Smelling like a girl keeps her close, even on chill days.
18. Learn One Girly Skill
This year, I’ll pick one classic femme skill—braiding hair, painting nails perfectly, baking cute cupcakes—and get good at it. Something fun to master!
19. Host a Private Dress-Up Night
Once a quarter, I’ll carve out a night to go all out—full outfit, makeup, wig—and just be her at home. Music on, mirror time, maybe some selfies. Pure sissy bliss.
20. Celebrate Small Wins
Every step counts, so I’ll cheer myself on—nailing a look, sticking to a promise, or just feeling her more. A treat, a happy dance, whatever feels good. I deserve it!
